For the first time in about two decades, we celebrated Easter with a dawn service. Just over a dozen people gathered together for a quiet, close-knit service. It involved discussion and singing and laughter. It warmed this introvert’s heart to be able to be with my family here. I knew everyone there, and not in some superficial way.
Home. It was like celebrating at home with people you’d welcome into your living space. It was warm and deep. This is where I belong.
Then we had our festival worship. Lots of loud music. Lots of visitors. Lots of joy. It was good to shout together, to praise together, to present the light of the Resurrection. To see old friends and new faces, to see a full church, it cheered me.
If you’re going to be loud and bombastic, Easter is a time to do it. To let the room ring for the surprise joy of a dead friend greeting mourning women by saying, “Hi,” to give voice to the New Creation by shouting hymns of praise, yes, this is good.
And then came a potluck! While the adults set up the food, the children gathered outside for an Easter egg hunt. And what a feast! The worship may have been good for the heart, but the food certainly wasn’t. Heart attack central! But it tasted so wonderful.
And about halfway through the time of the meal, I couldn’t be there anymore. I stepped away. I slipped into my office. Heart thumping, breath short—depression was hitting me. I’d been with people too much. Outside, I heard laughter. I heard people talking to one another. I heard them rejoicing together, the family of God.
Without me.
And you may see those two little words and hold the opinion that I am so, so sad. That my congregation should rush to my side and encourage me. That I am so, so alone.
But I’m not. As I heard them continue the meal without me, all I could think is: They don’t need me.
They don’t need me!
And how freeing that is. I can serve, but if I’m not here? God will raise up another. He will shepherd his flock. If I fall apart, my congregation will continue without me. When I am not enough, my God is enough to hold these people in the palm of his hand. I can’t hold them at all, after all. All I can do is point them to my Shepherd.
As I write this, it’s Tuesday after Easter. The depression has settled in, as I expected it would. This is normal after the craziness of Holy Week. But Sunday… Sunday was glorious. To see God’s people, to be with them, to step away… all of it was so, so good.
And I hope next Easter is just like it, stepping away and all.